Amin Bandali: Thinking about life – chat with Protesilaos
In the recent weeks I've been engaging Prot as a coach to help review
my new ffs package for GNU Emacs as I worked on preparing it for
inclusion in GNU ELPA, as well as discussing other Emacs- and
life-related topics.
In our nearly 2-hour conversation, we discussed at length and in depth
various aspects of life in the current times. For instance, feeling
overwhelmed in the face of innumerable things happening at once, with
technology changing our perception and making events feel proximate
and imminent.
We talked about seasonality and rhythms in life, including in relation
to burnout and knowing our own limitations, and descriptive vs
prescriptive thinking when reflecting on the expectations we may place
on our self when comparing our self to others through the lens of our
necessarily-incomplete impressions and glimpses of their lives. We
discussed absence or loss as a dual to presence or persistence in the
process of life. How with our memories and through embodying the
philosophy and teachings of departed loved ones their essence and
legacy continues to live on within us. But also loss in the sense of
us losing parts of our self in life-defining moments while preserving
other parts and gaining new ones, being liberated of some of the
burdens of our past self and in effect becoming someone else in the
process.
In being true to our self, we talked about humans as multi-faceted
beings and the importance of expressing and giving a voice to these
different aspects of our self, and keeping alive that child-like
sense of awe and wonder. To live a life where the pace and rhythms of
our environment are in sync with our internal rhythms, and to not give
others undue power over us or our happiness through trying to live
according to their prescribed standards or expectations.
I also learned more about Prot's practical philosophy of situational
awareness in life, not merely as a means for survival, but also as a
way of appreciating all of the beauty that surrounds us, and a method
for gaining the knowledge and skills to apply what we learn from
patterns in one area of life to other areas.
We concluded our session with a mention to the concept of sanctity, to
set aside a sacred time or place for our self wherein no distractions
are allowed, where we can unwind, rest, and recharge for whatever
comes next.
Here is the video recording of our session, which I share with Prot's
permission:
You can view or download the full-resolution video from the Internet
Archive.
Like Prot, I am invigorated and inspired to live a full, honest life.
To do my best, do what I do in earnest, and make the best of what I
have.
Take care, and so long for now.
Source: Planet GNU